DELIVER YOURSELF FROM THE BLAMING GAMES.

DELIVER YOURSELF FROM THE BLAMING GAMES.

I was looking at why I didn't achieve something this year, and I discovered that blaming things, people, and the currency of life is the main problem I have. This is also the problem why many, too, have not been productive since January. We love to put our responsibility on others' things. Say words like " If I have this, I will do this," "If I get the time, I could have written, but no time," "My background is the reason I am not progressing," "If I have 1 Million I have a business in do" Good many more words like that. Those are blaming games. Until you get yourself delivered, you start experiencing productivity in life. 

Stop playing the Game; it's a game that you will lose. Blaming things for where you are will change nothing, accept the fact and take Responsibility. Blame is the number one excuse in the world. It will keep you small and inconsequential without any of the guilt. It's someone else’s fault in the end. Can I tell you that the outcome of your life is no man's Fault? It's simply your fault. When you stop blaming others and take responsibility for things needed and important to do, you will experience a change in life. Tell yourself I am responsible for this thing happening to me. Ask yourself what you can do to change this thing happening to me. The reason you're not growing Spiritually, financially, mentally, or creatively in your areas of focus is just that you blame others for them. 

When you start blaming games, you're seductive; instead of doing things immediately, you feel superior to others. Think it's not your Fault. It's the third party's fault. You Will also avoid Responsibility. I was spiritually down for some months last year, and I have a friend around me. I will tell her you're the reason my prayer life goes down; you're the reason I'm not studying the Scripture. Until one day, I accept the Responsibility that anything that happens to me it's my fault. Like they do say my destiny is in my hands. 

In the games of blaming, the third party is not Hurting; what you're blaming is not Hurting; you're hurting yourself, wasting your energy and time. When I stopped wasting my energy resisting what I did not want, I could channel it into creating the life I dreamed of. Focusing on what needs to work and what needs to be built. Stop hurting yourself and wasting away with your blaming; Channel the energy used to blame and take the Responsibility needed to improve your life.

One of the worst years the Devil introduced blaming into my life was in 2020; I blamed a brother for the wrong I did; I was saying I was not like this before I knew him; I don't do things like this. The action activates anger in me. I was angry with everyone and myself that everything didn't make sense to me, but that year, I learned How to Take Responsibility for things in my life. And also trained people to take responsibility for themselves.  I said to myself accept, it's your Responsibility. Accepting gives me another way of thinking about the solution to the matter. 

When you don't see things as your responsibility, you blame people. By blaming others, you're hurting yourself, killing your potential, lack of Solution to matters at hand. You're Responsible for the outcome of your life. To everything around your life, Acknowledge your responsibility for them. What happens is your fault, don't let it kill your self-esteem. When you know it's your fault, Do the needful to be at peace with yourself by taking the needful responsibility. 

Finally, blame it's a game that offers temporary relief; its costs are profound, limiting our personal growth and blocking our potential. What blame are you still carrying? Are you willing to let it go? 

Don't stop yourself from manifesting your potential; do what needs to be done, and stop blaming the third party for the outcome of your life. God bless you.

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